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50 questions to get to know your partner better

Choose one question each, listen without interrupting and leave room to ask why. There is no need to finish the list. Either person can pass without explaining. These 50 questions come from Nido and are grouped by topic, including ten for long-distance conversations.

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Get to know each other

  1. What could you eat three days in a row?
  2. What was your favourite subject at school?
  3. What are you better at than I realise?
  4. What did you want to be when you were little?
  5. Which song do you know every word to?
  6. What plan would you cancel without a second thought?
  7. What helps a new place feel like home?
  8. Which little achievement are you proudest of?
  9. What would you love to learn from scratch?
  10. How can you tell when you need a break?

Funny questions

  1. Which competition would we embarrass ourselves in together?
  2. What would a film about us be called?
  3. Which TV character reminds you of me?
  4. What would my circus talent be?
  5. What would we do with a whole day and no obligations?

Deeper conversations

  1. What's been worrying you lately?
  2. What do you wish I understood better about you?
  3. When would you rather I just listened instead of giving advice?
  4. What recent decision are you happy with?
  5. What do you need after a bad day?

Long distance

  1. What part of your day would you like me to see?
  2. What small thing helps you feel close to me?
  3. When is a good time for an unhurried conversation?
  4. What simple plan should we repeat on our next visit?
  5. What would you like to show me in your neighbourhood?
  6. How would you like to tell me when you need a quiet day?
  7. What could we cook at the same time in our own homes?
  8. What song would you choose for our next call?
  9. What everyday thing do you miss doing together?
  10. What would you like us to remember before saying goodbye?

Preferences

  1. Would you rather have a surprise outing or choose it yourself?
  2. What do you like doing on a rainy afternoon?
  3. What food would you celebrate good news with?
  4. What would you do to switch off for an hour?
  5. What would you like to do with a ten-euro budget?

Who is more likely

  1. Who takes longer to decide what to order?
  2. Who packs more things just in case?
  3. Who falls asleep first during a film?
  4. Who would suggest a trip and leave the same day?
  5. Who remembers dates better?

The future

  1. Where would you like to travel this year?
  2. What would you like to learn with me?
  3. What have we been putting off for too long?
  4. Where would you spend a month if we could choose anywhere?
  5. What are you looking forward to celebrating?

Living together

  1. Which chore would you swap for literally any other one?
  2. What must we always have in the fridge?
  3. Which part of our home would you change?
  4. What would be our one rule for a perfect Sunday?
  5. Which habit of mine have you ended up copying?

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